Not all men are pigs, and it is so important that when we have conversations about inappropriate actions we keep the main blame and focus on the actions, not on the people in general because it is just as wrong to generalize and demonize everyone just because one person of the gender was an asshole misogynist. My father is a good man, my boyfriend is a good man, many of my best friends are good men, so much of tumblr is comprised of good men. I just hope that the discussion can be less about making people aware that there are creepy assholish men at comic conventions and more about what women should do if and when they are faced with this type of guy. I don’t want to incite fear in anyone’s mind or make it seem like all men are just horny dogs- some men are respectful and awesome, some are idiots who need to get a talking to. So get talking!
I just wanted to let you know that you're absolutely stunning and saw your post about what happen at comic con and I'd like to apologize for that. Men, or should I say boys, are pigs. I think you're very courageous to have stood up for yourself like that and I respect you because of it. Have a nice day xo